I'm technically an adult but I really don't feel like one and i'm sort of just muddling through the stuff i have to do as best i can. I'm fat, bi, white and dfab genderqueer, and i like they/them pronouns please. If you are an oppressive buttface please go away. I try to tag for triggers but if I'm missing a tag that you need just let me know!! my vegan recipes and stuff blog is fatfeministfoodie and my witchy blog is firstafeministnowawitch.
*looks at person of one gender* daaaaaang
*looks at person of another gender* wooooooooow
alright here is a major lifehack: you can be a girl & nonbinary, you can be a girl & a boy, you can be a girl & other stuff. you can be a girl “sometimes” or “usually” or “occasionally.” you can be “a girl” as in your own private definition of a girl rather than the one you were designated without your consent as a Little baby. you can also align yourself with girlness in a lot of ways while not being entirely a girl yourself. that is all alright.
i know a lot of people in a similar boat who are afab & nb in some way and consider themselfs girls some how and they are all pretty seriously epic. that is not a bad way to be at all, it is fine… you can do it… there is a huge difference between “deliberately re-approaching femininity & girlness after a long time of not being it” “choosing to think of yourself as a girl in someways because you can do that” and “accepting the thing you were designated, never questioning it, never trying to be other things”
i think your feelings are legitimate anyway, especially if you feel trans. being trans is a feel and anyone can know it
- feeling some type of way
- snow queen
- game on point
- serving up looks/ aethetics
- throwing shade
- fierce (White gays will never let this one go)
- gave me life
- giving me all my life
- turn up
- spillin’ tea (not literally of course)
I know there is more, but lordt I can’t think of it all right now.
I know I have some white followers who use these words and phrases. Even a couple of mutuals, I think. Let’s not, okay?
after they bury Michael Brown today
let us remember that the fight for justice is not over
please do not forget Ferguson
please keep Michael Brown on your mind, his family and friends in your hearts, and the city of Ferguson in your prayers
let us continue to stand in solidarity with our brothers and sisters fighting for justice & peace